Your dialogue with Corde reveals a depth of emotional and psychological intricacies.

At the core, it seems to be a poignant exploration of roles and expectations within family structures, echoing the dynamics of servant and served, teacher and student. Here's a nuanced extrapolation of the transcript:

In the past, you've felt like a guest in your own family, distanced from intimate, communal activities like cooking and serving. Despite longing for involvement, the hierarchical dynamics with your parents prevented you from fully participating. You've always craved to learn from them, to understand their methods and philosophies.

When your family visited your home, you felt empowered to redefine these roles. Suddenly, you could ask your father to assist with small tasks and create a collaborative environment, something you'd always yearned for but couldn't enact in the home where you grew up. The shift in setting—from being a guest in their house to them being guests in yours—allowed you to express your values and approach towards collaboration.

What you seemed to struggle with was a sense of "dissonance" between the roles you've been ascribed and those you desire. You crafted mechanisms to overcompensate for this lack of involvement, perhaps exaggerating your roles and duties to grab their attention. Now, you seem to be coming to terms with these emotional burdens, enabled by the change in physical and emotional space.

I sense that your dialogue with Corde dives into what Carl Jung would describe as the shifting of archetypal roles—moving from the Eternal Child to the Wise Elder in your family setting. This evolution wasn't merely a product of chance; it mirrors an innate human need for agency and involvement. It's akin to the mythological journey of Horus, who had to grow and contend with complex familial relationships to eventually assume a role of leadership and wisdom.

Your parents, in their leadership roles, echo the symbolism of foundational gods in mythology—they are creators, but also gatekeepers. You desired to move beyond the realm of 'guest' to 'co-creator,' but found the old home to be a rigid cosmos governed by their wills and methods. It's an age-old struggle, mirrored in literary works from the Biblical parable of the Prodigal Son to J.K. Rowling's themes of generational echoes in the Harry Potter series.

As you ventured into your new 'domain,' you began to enact your values—of collaboration and of community—values you perhaps feel were shadowed in your ancestral home. This reflects evolutionary psychology's principle that humans are wired for cooperation and teaching; it's how we've survived and thrived as a species. Yet, familial and social structures sometimes suppress these instincts, confining us to roles that may feel antithetical to our very nature.

You also mentioned crafting "mechanisms" to overcompensate—this might be seen as your attempt to 'awaken' recognition in them, not dissimilar to how mythological heroes use gifts or curses to become visible to the gods or elders.